Women's Liberation

 

As much as the idea is alluring, it’s still only an idea.

As a matter of fact, if the idea still exists; the worthwhile is repudiated.

Recently, over and above all my experiences in the last 44 odd years I have lived on this planet, I have come across so many escapades that make me wonder – are we getting it right? (Without trying to sound sanctimonious).

I recently watched a show on TV promoting feminism; the women are powerful nevertheless. The women are career driven, they put their careers before families, relationships, changing partners by hurting their feelings without regret. The whole idea driven in the show is delinquent.  The idea is to give choices to women as well as men. The idea is about equality without hating the other gender.

A woman could still be a stay-at-home mum, make lunches for husbands, dropping children to school without losing her identity, respect. The movement should be about respecting her choices regardless of her views, her lifestyle.

Then the icing on the cake is when you combine ageism, culturism and male chauvinism!

So, no – the idea is not worthwhile if it still exists.

 

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